When a boy is interested in her, she considers herself a prize that he must win and not phrase waiting to be completed. You may disagree about your role with boys. You may say this is all too old-fashioned and things have changed. And you would be right. Things have changed. Girls can chase boys. They can be one of the guys, and they can make a boy do everything. But when they do, they lose the prize and the mystery that God wants them to have. Girls who make the pursuit of a boy their goal in life they look needy and insecure. They don't instill confidence in boys or make them want to fight for her. They make boys lazy and complacent, and they devalue themselves. A girl with a boy is a magical thing, and when God orchestrates it, nothing is more amazing. But when you attempt to take that job away from God and do it yourself, you set yourself up for disaster. The most valuable jewel in the world isn't one that you can get at any Wal-Mart or Target; it is the one that is hard to find and comes at a great cost. You are that jewel, and your value ought to be so great that boys have to work for years to gain your affection. The harder he has to work to get you, the more he will value you. Become the rare jewel that you were meant to be, and don't give yourself away like just another piece of junk jewelry. So when it comes to love and boys, the God Girl lives like this:
1. She doesn't ever choose the love of a boy over the love of God (see Galatians 1:10).
2. She guards her hearts and doesn't give boys easy access to her deepest thoughts and feelings (see proverbs 4:23).
3. She isn't jealous (see 1 Corinthians 13:4).
4. She doesn't depend on a boy to be her source of happiness but depends on God (see Galatians 5:22).
5. She never idolizes a guy (see Exodus 20:4).
6. She never fights over a boy (see Matthew 5:44).
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